Comments for Complex Femme http://complexwoman.wordpress.com Ginger Rogers did everything Fred Astaire did, only backwards and in high heels. Mon, 02 Nov 2009 18:39:13 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on How do you know? by JD (The Engine Room) http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/2009/10/14/how-do-you-know/#comment-483 JD (The Engine Room) Mon, 02 Nov 2009 18:39:13 +0000 http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/?p=770#comment-483 In response particularly to your sentence: "In both cases, there was ignorance on the part of someone that they were living with an individual who was capable of murder". Could it be that every individual is capable of murder - or any act, good or bad - in the right circumstances? In the course of my life so far I've surprised myself with both the good and the bad things (not murder!) that I've done. So it would be fair to say that I don't really know myself; how then can I be expected to know anyone else? That doesn't mean, of course, that we shouldn't be careful or selective about who we meet and spend time with... good for you, though, for putting faith above fear when it comes to friendships. In response particularly to your sentence: “In both cases, there was ignorance on the part of someone that they were living with an individual who was capable of murder”.

Could it be that every individual is capable of murder – or any act, good or bad – in the right circumstances? In the course of my life so far I’ve surprised myself with both the good and the bad things (not murder!) that I’ve done. So it would be fair to say that I don’t really know myself; how then can I be expected to know anyone else?

That doesn’t mean, of course, that we shouldn’t be careful or selective about who we meet and spend time with… good for you, though, for putting faith above fear when it comes to friendships.

]]> Comment on How do you know? by sea http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/2009/10/14/how-do-you-know/#comment-482 sea Sat, 17 Oct 2009 00:23:28 +0000 http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/?p=770#comment-482 I have met people I have spoken to on the net. I am also cautious. I had a great time when you stayed here...and am truly sorry the visit didn't get the result you would have liked. I have met people I have spoken to on the net. I am also cautious. I had a great time when you stayed here…and am truly sorry the visit didn’t get the result you would have liked.

]]> Comment on How do you know? by Rana http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/2009/10/14/how-do-you-know/#comment-481 Rana Fri, 16 Oct 2009 00:32:59 +0000 http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/?p=770#comment-481 It is true we all have parts of ourselves that others don't know or understand. Not all of us are murders or even hurtful in anyway way. I think it comes down to the fact that we all have things we either try to run away from or that we just don't like about us. These are things that we don't always share. This is not to say people are not worth getting to know. One can only hope, that given time and with a willingness to except other for who they are, they will one day be able to show you who they believe they are. Opening your life in any way is a small leap of faith. There is always a risk of getting hurt. Likewise there is alway the possiblity of finding someone that will enrich our lives. Like everything in life it is a blance. I think you are smart to not just run out and meet people on the internet. I hope you never find someone with murder in their heart or past. But more I think all true friendships, even over the internet, should be something to be charished. It is true we all have parts of ourselves that others don’t know or understand. Not all of us are murders or even hurtful in anyway way. I think it comes down to the fact that we all have things we either try to run away from or that we just don’t like about us. These are things that we don’t always share. This is not to say people are not worth getting to know. One can only hope, that given time and with a willingness to except other for who they are, they will one day be able to show you who they believe they are. Opening your life in any way is a small leap of faith. There is always a risk of getting hurt. Likewise there is alway the possiblity of finding someone that will enrich our lives. Like everything in life it is a blance. I think you are smart to not just run out and meet people on the internet. I hope you never find someone with murder in their heart or past. But more I think all true friendships, even over the internet, should be something to be charished.

]]> Comment on Unmentionables by scarygirl67 http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/2009/10/05/unmentionables/#comment-480 scarygirl67 Mon, 05 Oct 2009 15:22:35 +0000 http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/?p=765#comment-480 Oh wow....I hadn't thought about that....but you're right. I think that we are fooled into believing that somehow our underwear is a reflection of who we are...we all want to feel sexy and nice underwear is supposed to do that for us. Although....can't imagine how sexy you felt hiding up yer draws! :-) Oh wow….I hadn’t thought about that….but you’re right. I think that we are fooled into believing that somehow our underwear is a reflection of who we are…we all want to feel sexy and nice underwear is supposed to do that for us. Although….can’t imagine how sexy you felt hiding up yer draws! :-)

]]> Comment on Still Here by Rose http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/2009/09/16/still-here/#comment-479 Rose Sat, 03 Oct 2009 22:59:45 +0000 http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/?p=760#comment-479 Well now I don't have to feel so guilty about not visiting. lol Well now I don’t have to feel so guilty about not visiting. lol

]]> Comment on Still Here by Marg http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/2009/09/16/still-here/#comment-478 Marg Tue, 22 Sep 2009 04:24:18 +0000 http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/?p=760#comment-478 I can't tell you what a relief it was to resign from where I was for exactly the same reasons! I can’t tell you what a relief it was to resign from where I was for exactly the same reasons!

]]> Comment on Still Here by sea http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/2009/09/16/still-here/#comment-477 sea Fri, 18 Sep 2009 20:25:14 +0000 http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/?p=760#comment-477 It seems thast so many people are reflective at this time of the year. It seems thast so many people are reflective at this time of the year.

]]> Comment on Anniversary by Skatha http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/2009/09/01/anniversary/#comment-476 Skatha Sun, 06 Sep 2009 01:04:27 +0000 http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/?p=756#comment-476 LDK... hell no. LDK… hell no.

]]> Comment on Anniversary by literarydeadkittens http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/2009/09/01/anniversary/#comment-475 literarydeadkittens Sat, 05 Sep 2009 21:51:20 +0000 http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/?p=756#comment-475 Soooo.... why the holiday to England? Didn't you see enough of this tiny, chilly isle the last two trips? Soooo…. why the holiday to England? Didn’t you see enough of this tiny, chilly isle the last two trips?

]]> Comment on Anniversary by seaeaglemorwenna http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/2009/09/01/anniversary/#comment-474 seaeaglemorwenna Tue, 01 Sep 2009 20:27:16 +0000 http://complexwoman.wordpress.com/?p=756#comment-474 :O! doesn't seem like that long since. Am glad they have steered clear so far this season. :O! doesn’t seem like that long since. Am glad they have steered clear so far this season.

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